Bowling Is A Family Tradition I Never Quite Got, But Maybe I Could (Day 4)

I’m not sure how I became one of the unbowlers of the universe, but it happened. And in some ways, it makes me a bit of a black sheep of the family. I grew up in a bowling family. My granddad was especially tied to the sport. This photo of his bowling team is one of my favorite family photos.

Granddaddy loved his cigars and his bowlingMy granddad is the one who looks like a bit of a bruiser. LOL. That’s him on the front row, on the right with the ever present cigar in his mouth. I didn’t have a chance to know my granddad very well. He died when I was young — think it was second grade or so. But I’ve heard enough stories and seen enough photos to know he really loved bowling. And I can still hear his booming voice in my head as I remember early breakfast when I got to spend the night at their house…. biscuits were a must!

I mean check out this shot I found. For some reason it seems the digital version didn’t come out too clearly  BUT I think you should be able to see his zest for bowling (and you can also see the familiar cigar!)

But I do remember my parents bowling. Mom & dad were in a church league too. They used to go once a week to bowl. Had their own shoes and balls. And I vaguely remember my older brother and sister doing a summer league or something along the way, but I think I may have been too young to join. So most of my time spent in a bowling alley as a kid was watching other people bowl, playing with whatever other kids were there, etc.

Sure there were the midnight bowling parties, a bowl-a-thon maybe and the occasional birthday party held at a bowling alley. But for whatever reason, I didn’t really pick it up. And since I never really got into it, I don’t think I tried too hard at it.

I mean I think it is fine to do something just to enjoy hanging out with friends… you don’t always have to be good at something to have fun. But Saturday…. well, it was another of those events where I was invited as part of a crowd. This was the second time I was bowling with my office mates. Last time, I found out some of them are real bowlers like some of my family. Luckily, there were some others who were just a step above bowling with bumpers (like me).

Bowling & I got FIVE STRIKES IN A ROW -- keeping score old school But bowling this time made me wonder whether I should try harder. See, the first game of the day, I did pretty well. In fact, it was the best game I have ever bowled. Usually I’m thrilled to break a hundred and somehow I did a lot better than that. I really couldn’t believe it. But I bowled five strikes in a row. Not the five gutter balls I may have done before. I was just having fun too. Wasn’t stressing out or anything and really couldn’t believe it.

Everyone was amazed but nobody was more amazed than me. When the streak came to an end, I took a photo of the screen and texted it to my big sis who has on occasion gotten me to bowl with her family.

Her reply? Simply “Granddad would be proud.” What a great reply! What a great feeling too!

I was left to wonder, is it possible that I’m not a hopeless bowler, just a person who has never learned to bowl the right way? Is it something I could enjoy getting better at? And then the real world came back and I bowled games where I didn’t get to 100. And the greatest part of it? I was still having fun. Guess it is the people you are with more than the ball that matters…. I can practice and maybe get more consistent on the score but good folks? That’s what would make it worth spending the time practicing.

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6 Responses to Bowling Is A Family Tradition I Never Quite Got, But Maybe I Could (Day 4)

  1. Unc November 5, 2012 at 3:54 pm #

    Dad’s face is out of focus for one of 2 reasons . The photog got nervous standing in front f him when he threw the ball. lol. Or because Dad threw his head back as he gave it that last ooomph as he released the ball. He woud have really enjoyed seeing “Red” bowling and enjoying it. Just a piece of advice from my ole man: Don’t work too hard on your delivery trying to go by the book just practice consistency in what you do naturally.” luv, Unc

    • Janice Person November 6, 2012 at 8:16 am #

      I was thinking I’d be nervous standing there!

  2. Ric November 6, 2012 at 2:05 pm #

    That was great!! I beat you by only one strike, six is the best I ever did and it was a total fluke but a lot of fun. Unc has it right just do what you do and be consistant, then you can adjust from there. Proud of my very erudite niece. Other Unc

    • Janice Person November 6, 2012 at 5:00 pm #

      Thanks Ric. It was fun. I probably could have gotten six but I was goofing around too much having fun LOL!

  3. Pat Holmes March 12, 2013 at 10:13 pm #

    Janice, you write so beautifully. Talking about Larry has helped Ric and me too. Even though We didn’t visit Larry and Martha, we were glad they came to Memphis so often, and stayed with us. I really loved him; the big brother I never had. Ric said Larry was like a substitute dad, and a big brother (because his Dad worked so much to make ends meet back then when Ric was a kid.) Ric mentioned the wooden seat with places for his little legs and feet that Larry made for Ric to ride on the back of the bike. Larry also taught Ric to drive. Sometimes Larry and I would sit up and talk after Ric and Martha had given out and gone on to their beds. We talked about every thing from flowers, to the world’s problems, to how Ric and I were getting along. He was proud Ric had settled down, and we were doing well in our marriage (30 yrs. this Oct.) So often, still, we will start to say we need to tell Larry this or that, and then just look at each other with tears in our eyes. It just doesn’t seem real yet. We shall truly, truly miss him. Ric just hates the fact he couldn’t be with all the family, but we know everyone understands, because of the knee surgeries, he couldn’t make the trip. Thanks for insights into Larry I didn’t have. He was truly a big man with a big heart, and that’s the main thing I’ll remember. He accepted me for me, and as Ric’s wife. Ric and I are truly blessed to have had him all these years. Pat

    • Janice Person March 13, 2013 at 12:45 pm #

      Thanks for sharing your memories. Unc was a special guy and his death leaves a hole in a lot of hearts…. luckily our hearts are much bigger having known him.

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