Where do you stand on Selfies? Backer or Backlash?

share a selfie and a smileWhile I was browsing BlogHer.com (so pumped that I will be at the conference next week), I stumbled on a post that made me look. The title? No, Really! Show Us Your Selfie! I decided to give it a look. There was a collection of selfies by the writer (Jenna Hatfield) and her family/friends and then the piece I had to take a look at:

There’s been backlash against selfies over the past couple of years. People want to call it narcissism. I call that bunk. I love your selfies. I love seeing your face today, your hairstyle, what you’re wearing. I love seeing you with your kids, with your partner, with your grandma, with your dog. I love seeing you do something that you love, or try something for the first time. I love seeing you in black and white, in color, with or without a filter. I love seeing YOU because, as I’ve said before, you are real friends.And so today I ask you to show us your selfie. No, really. Show us your selfie. A real one, a funny one, one that tells a story, a new one, an old one, whatever selfie you want to show us today, I want to see it. I want to see YOU.

For those of you who look at the website (that plugin in the right hand column) or who are connections on Instagram or Facebook, have seen quite a few selfies of/from me. But I know some folks don’t do selfies or get them anymore than some folks get why people like me share photos of great food.

So what are my thoughts on selfies? I’m a backer of some and yet I understand the backlash against some. I know, it sounds like a political answer. And yet I can explain.

How & Why I Take & Share Selfies

Like Jenna, I was taking selfies long before phones had the button that made it so easy. I’ve taken them with generations of smartphones, with little point & shoot cameras, with remotes for my big cameras on a tripod or balanced on a car. I kind of feel like Green Eggs & Ham as I can say honestly I would take them here and there, I’d take selfies most anywhere. But why?

selfie with former President CarterSharing Experiences

I have a rare flexibility to travel and experience things, meet awesome people. Among my family and friends are people who are interested in seeing some of the things I get to see. Some of those rare experiences that make me smile from ear to ear. I share those moments to others can see parts of what I’m doing & seeing.

selfie in MexicoRecently I met former President Jimmy Carter … that was a great selfie moment though later a friend happened to snap a better shot of me chatting up the President & Mrs. Carter. Earlier this year I had a once in a lifetime opportunity to go to Obregon, Mexico — the place where Norman Borlaug started the green revolution — to see the progress being made there and the challenges that remain. A lot of friends had an interest in seeing things from my vantagepoint.

Sharing A Sense of Place

Independence is a big part of who I am but there are times when I am in the middle of something and think…. this… this is a moment to capture. A uniquely quiet time. Those times, I tend to use a remote or timer, like when I did my big Montana roadtrip and stopped in Jackson Hole in front of the rugged fence & Grand Teton mountains.

Because capturing a solo moment is so important to me, I have also asked lots of people to snap a photo for me, heck I even carry a point and shoot specifically so people can snap pics but I have to say, the timer or remote and my patience tend to work better than the first shot by a stranger who doesn’t have my eye for what I’m trying to capture the moment.

selfie at Jackson Hole

Sharing Spontaneity

surprise capturing selfie with my broAs I looked at some of my selfies, I couldn’t help but notice there are lots of pictures I take out of sheer surprise or spontaneity! Those moments when you think “did this just happen?” or “wow the world is so freakin’ small!”

One of the ones that grabbed me was when I was wandering through the Detroit airport en route to Japan last summer when BAM! My brother & sister-in-law called out to me! They were on the way to the UK for a vacation! Another was when I was at a playoff game for the St. Louis Blues and I ran into a friend from Australia I hadn’t seen in years. YES YEARS! Those are just the sort of things you have to share!

selfie with my momSharing Smiles

One of the first reasons is I have lots of family & friends who live in other cities, states, countries… social media is a way to keep up. I love seeing their faces and at least some of them enjoy seeing what I’m up to. And when I get to hang out with them, I love capturing some of the moments! Smiles are always enormous and I feel like I have to share the joy. I mean look at this photo of my mom & I in Tunica, MS…. friends and family just had to smile!

Last year’s BlogHer conference gave me plenty of reasons to smile and some were captured with photos. Am sure I’ll be having some to share next weekend!

And for me…. that sharing smiles…. that’s probably the biggest way I use selfies… a way of sharing smiles. And in the world of social media these days I think we could use more. Sure some of us selfie folks may go a bit overboard at times…. if and when that happens, just assume the person meant the best and keep going along your way. Don’t bother creating a backlash cause that’s more likely to bother you than you need. Instead, find something that will make you smile and whether you choose to share a photo of it or not, you end up in a better spot!

About Janice Person

I'm Janice & this blog is about my passions -- photography, travel, agriculture & whatever else comes to mind. Putting all those things together is intriguing to me…. I can spend a lot of time soaking it up! It's almost always a colorful adventure!

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